2021.12.06 20:56 Majestic_Painter8660 Dahyun

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2021.12.06 20:56 Khayembii I [34/m] am having fights and issues with my gf's [31/f] personal finance decisions

My girlfriend [31/f] and I [34/m] live together. After dating for a while she came to me and told me she was being evicted and sued for back rent which she didn't have. I helped her through the whole thing, the lawsuit was dropped almost immediately and she was able to pay her old landlord the rent she owed.
We now live together. She also had some tax issues that I helped her clear up and was able to get her a bunch of money in refunds the IRS owed. I got her to open a savings account and start putting money into it. I also got her to get her student loans rehabilitated which she'll have to start paying in February after the moratorium goes away.
We're planning a big move, and I've been trying for months to get her to open a credit card to start building good credit. I've also been trying to get her to put money into savings, not just for the move but also for an emergency fund.
A lot of this has come at an enormous amount of following up, repeatedly asking and admittedly nagging.
When I started doing all of this it was because I wanted to help her so she would be in a good financial position and happy. But I also started realizing I was doing it because I don't want to be with someone that doesn't manage their money responsibly.
Recently things have gotten more heated over money because I've been trying to get her to put more money into her savings and pay her bills on pay day, instead of the day they're due. The latter is because she's occasionally paid bills late, including rent to me.
I've started building up some resentment over a few things that happened in the past month. For example, her portion of the rent is quite low (I'm fine with this as I make much more than her). However, last month she couldn't pay me on time. I knew she spent a good percentage of the rent the days before on delivery food and clothes. Still, I let her pay me a week late as it wasn't a big deal to me, and then told her she should start paying her bills on pay day to avoid it happening in the future.
Another example is that we were on a weekend trip and window shopping and she casually mentioned that she has enough to buy this purse, which was her entire savings that I helped her get from tax refunds and from getting her to put more money in her account. This really upset me - she didn't do it, but the fact that she would so casually say it did.
Finally, the other day she told me she didn't have money to put down for the $300 deposit to open a secured credit card, and today she came home with $100-200 in clothes. This bothered me and I told her that it disappointed me that she wasn't prioritizing these things and instead just spending all her money. I tried to not make it an argument but it turned into one.
I don't want to date someone that perpetually has zero in their savings and complains they don't have money. I don't want to date someone who is expecting me to fund their retirement after marriage (she's never said this but has zero plan). I can't let this go.
On the other hand, it's her money, and we're not married yet, and I don't want to be controlling. But it just feels like she's not doing enough to make me think she takes this seriously.
How am I supposed to handle this? Do I back down and let her manage them however she wants? Do I keep pushing and risk the relationship?
tl;dr Girlfriend doesn't save money, isn't prioritizing managing her finances, and it's an issue for me.
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2021.12.06 20:56 NoirBzlBub Hubby printed this switch plate for our kids room.

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2021.12.06 20:56 niconi2521 Do You have a relationship?

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2021.12.06 20:56 CommonIQ Paint Spell (Third Animated Short Film) (Clearer Version)

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2021.12.06 20:56 Tbola Flavour Matching - Potatoes

Pretty basic question for y'all... I know when people add cheese to their mashed, or loaded baked potatoes, the go-to is almost always cheddar. And I'm not critiquing the classics, but I'm curious if you guys have found other cheeses that really make themselves at home with taters.
I tried a mash with some brie in it, but wasn't super taken by it. (Almost made it taste like the potatoes were slightly off). Wondering if anyone else has had success with that combo, or should I chalk that up as a failed experiment.
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2021.12.06 20:56 zakkmylde2000 Never Easy

I don’t necessarily need any advice or anything as much as I just wanna get it out somewhere.
So, it just seems that any interest I find in another person has to be filled with issues (not in the person but just in the interest itself). To start, it’s at my place of work, and to make it even more complicated on my side of it, they’re technically my employee as they’re a manager at a place I am the general manager of. Already I feel like I’m in a crap spot here, because as much as I know they would never think that I’d use that as leverage (because we’ve worked together long enough for them to know that’s not something I would do) I can’t help but feel like my position of authority over them would be an issue that causes them to lean one way or the other on how they should respond to my interest in them. Secondly, this person is in a relationship, albeit one that’s beginning to fail, and being someone who has been divorced I would never want to be the reason why someone cheated/ended a relationship. Even if that relationship is beginning to fail anyway. Lastly, it’s not like it’s a secret this person doesn’t know. I’ve very clearly expressed my interest in them beyond being coworkers, and have been told that it’s definitely a mutual attraction. Just a frustrating situation that unfortunately isn’t an uncommon one throughout my life. The only thing different here is they’ve helped me learn something about myself, which is that I’m open to a relationship with trans (FTM) person. Which probably isn’t that crazy to most of you, but I’ve always considered myself a heterosexual cis male, and have never been interested romantically, or even just sexually, in a male. Maybe isn’t a huge deal, but the fact that after 33 years of life this person has helped me realize something about myself I never really even thought of before just makes me that much more into them. Maybe because I feel like if they can help me figure that out then what else could spending time with this person could help me learn about myself. So, I guess in a way this is kinda my “in writing” coming out as bi post. Even though that’s not really a big deal now a days.
All things considered, I am happy just to call this person a friend, but man I’d be lying to say I don’t want it to be more than that. I just hope that whatever controls the fate of our existence has the possibility of that happening in the “likely to happen” category of chance.
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2021.12.06 20:56 davidjohnson06 yeah she's my 🤔🤔classMATE😳😳😳😳


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2021.12.06 20:56 BookOne3667 Join the Lolitas Discord Server!

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2021.12.06 20:56 voxelverse Dragon filter

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2021.12.06 20:56 nicky416dos 200 gallon oil tank ruptured spilling oil all over my town (Dec 6, 2021)

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2021.12.06 20:56 KubrickRupert A Ghost Story Never Leaves A Haunted House

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2021.12.06 20:56 JustJoe1223 Anyone searching or found a seed similar to the new background menu?

Just looks beautiful
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2021.12.06 20:56 Scottblueto Assassins creed 4 naval accuracy like SMCP and seaspeak

Does AC 4 have any naval accuracy like SMCP(Standard Marine Communication Phrases) or just Seaspeak does it use starboard side, port side , or aft ship , mid ship , Bow , stern , etc but even simple things like that
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2021.12.06 20:56 bwildered_mind Wallpaper

Con is basically wallpaper at this point. I hardly remember he's in the show sometimes.
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2021.12.06 20:56 Direct_Raspberry_337 Zekrom raid now on us adding as much as we can 9509 2323 8206 or 9234 9167 5501

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2021.12.06 20:56 ekwhite2011 What is this gun? Was donated at the thrift store I work at and this was the only pic I managed to get before management took it away. It was marked as a Wingmaster but I can’t remember the other details marked on it.

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2021.12.06 20:56 Jeeze-Louise Baby cries herself to sleep no matter what we do?

Baby is 15 weeks and lately has been crying herself to sleep regardless of if I’m holding her, rocking, etc. She rarely nurses to sleep or takes a bottle to sleep. She had real bad reflux until about 12 weeks when it seemed to stop, so we used to hold her upright for 30min after every feed and I think that might half helped curb that sleep association.
I used to have to carry her around or rock her to get her to fall asleep fully but now even then she cries for about 5-10min until she falls asleep. It’s not a screaming cry. It’s more of a tired kind of pouty cry. Do you think she’s over-tired? Or is it some kind of sleep regression thing?
Also, no health concerns but of course I’ll ask my doctor about it. She’s otherwise a very happy smiley baby. Eats well and is gaining weight, hitting milestones, etc.
She naps 4-5 times a day anywhere from 30min to 1.5hours. Usually the biggest nap is her second or third one. We don’t have perfectly mapped wake windows but they are anywhere from 45min (morning) to 2hr (evening).
She started daycare a little over a month ago and actually naps pretty well there. She sleeps fine through the night for the most part with just two wakings to eat.
I’m not really sure what it’s about. Has anyone experienced this? I’m wondering if I should lay her in her crib for the 10 mins and see if she puts herself to sleep that way instead of with me holding her, but I know she’s technically not ready for sleep training. What would you do?
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2021.12.06 20:56 imperioclosefriends GRUPO TELEGRAM

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2021.12.06 20:56 pinkmetro Can we make a 20 something something groupchat?

I'm a 25 y/o female and i live in the Netherlands. I would love to connect with other 20 year olds. hell 30 year olds are also welcome. It doesn't matter where you're from or gender or anything like that, just be an openminded person so we can vibe. i would love to meet people from all over the world and have different point of views on things.
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2021.12.06 20:56 HashtagPowerSteer WTB - Spyderco Smock

Looking to buy a smock, any version or condition.
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2021.12.06 20:56 McB43 Any tips for introducing my dog to my fiancées?

Hi all. A little context first. I bought a house last October and completed a full remodel. During that time I met someone who had just gotten a puppy herself. My dog has stayed with my parents in the meantime. Fast forward a year later and my fiancée, myself and her dog have been living here for 4 months now but I’m ready to get my dog back. I have some concerns with the following:

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2021.12.06 20:56 NewsElfForEnterprise American Petroleum Institute CEO: We need to produce more oil and gas in the U.S. to reduce prices for Americans

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2021.12.06 20:56 grimy_crossover Abby Rao

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2021.12.06 20:56 Phaerox00 A Little Further, Me, Digital Photography, 2021

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